Resources

A collection of books, videos, podcasts, workbooks, groups, and other materials that clients may find helpful.

General

Where to Turn in Nashville: Middle TN’s Resource Directory

Attachment

Attachment Style Quiz

Boundaries

10 Laws of Boundaries (based on Cloud & Townsend’s Boundaries)

The Set Boundaries Workbook by Nedra Glover Tawwab (from Set Boundaries)

Body Image & Eating

Body Neutrality

Intuitive Eating

Emotion Regulation

Distress Tolerance Handouts (DBT skills)

Moody mood tracker and journal app

Window of Tolerance: explanation and practical strategies

Opposite Action (DBT skill)

Radical Acceptance (DBT skill & mindfulness practice)

Groups

Nashville Group Therapy Directory, updated by Dr. Erin Carney

Al-Anon Meeting Finder

ACA Meeting Finder (Adult Children of Alcoholics & Dysfunctional Families)

AA Meeting Finder (Alcoholics Anonymous)

Chronic Illness Support Groups

Wildheart Meditation Center in East Nashville and their podcast

Habit-Forming

Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear

LGBTQIA+

Nashville GSA

The Trevor Project

“Medical Care for Transgender Youth with Dr. Johanna Olson-Kennedy” Podcast Episode

Middle Tennessee Transgender Alliance

Understanding Asexuality by the Trevor Project

Neurodiversity

ADHD Resources from ADDitude Magazine

Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity by Devon Price

Queerness + Christianity

Queerology: On Belief & Being podcast hosted by therapist Matthias Roberts

Beyond Shame: Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms by Matthias Roberts

Love Makes Room: And Other Things I Learned When My Daughter Came Out by Staci Frenes

Inspired by Rachel Held Evans

Unnatural: Spiritual Resiliency in Queer Christian Women by Rachel Murr

Relationships

Gottman’s 4 Horsemen & Antidotes

Gottman’s Emotion Bank Account

Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection by Drs. John and Julie Gottman

Overview of the Gottmans’ Research

How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving by David Richo

Fair Play card deck for dividing household physical and mental labor

Equality Wheel and Power & Control Wheel for identifying safe versus unsafe relationships

Where Should We Begin?: A Game of Stories card deck by Esther Perel

Sex & Intimacy

Come As You Are Workbook by Emily Nagoski (from Come As You Are)

Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin’s Instagram and her book Sex Talks

Suicidality/Crisis

Crisis Text Line (chat or text)

988 Crisis Line (chat, call, text, and other resources)

LGBTQIA+ Crisis Line (chat, call, text, and other resources) by The Trevor Project

“Helping your friends who sometimes wanna die maybe not die” zine for supporting a suicidal loved one by Carly Boyce*

*This is a resource that has been helpful to some but is not direct therapeutic advice or an overt clinical recommendation from me.

Trauma

The Pain We Carry: Healing from Complex PTSD for People of Color by Natalie Gutiérrez

Somebody’s Daughter by Ashley C. Ford

The Deepest Well: Healing the Long-Term Effects of Childhood Trauma and Adversity by Nadine Burke Harris

What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma by Stephanie Foo

My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies by Resmaa Menakem